Ways to Float Your Stress Away

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Take Care of Your Body

  • Get 8-9 hours of sleep on a regular schedule
  • Maintain a properly balanced diet
  • Avoid / reduce alcohol & caffeine
  • Aerobic exercise 20-30 min, at least 3 x week
  • Massage, sauna, or relaxing bath
  • Get a medical checkup

Take Care with your Communication

  • Reflect before expressing anger
  • But don’t build up resentment
  • Be direct instead of using jokes or sarcasm
  • Use “I” statements instead of e.g., “You always…”
  • Be assertive without being aggressive or passive
  • Listen — do not interrupt

Take Care with your Time

  • Set goals & prioritize (life priorities, not just academics/work)
  • Never all work and no play — be sure to re-create
  • Overcome procrastination
  • Delegate responsibility
  • Avoid polyphasic activity
  • Do not overextend yourself — pace yourself
  • Be realistic about deadlines and what you can accomplish

Allow Others to Take Care of You

  • You help others; why not let others help you?
  • Spend time with kind and respectful friends & significant others
  • Don’t bottle up tension
  • Talk to a supportive friend, clergy, or counselor
  • Prayer/spiritual support

Take Care with Systematic Relaxation

Take Care with Cognitive Restructuring

  • Are your perceptions of stressors distorted?
  • Watch your automatic thoughts for shoulds, overgeneralizations, catastrophizing
  • Let go of perfectionism
  • Reexamine your excessive guilt, self-blame
  • Confront your fear of failure OR fear of success
  • Recognize and accept personal limits
  • Your self worth isn’t based on your achievements
  • Counselors can teach cognitive restructuring

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